know what you‘re doing

I know

I know it is me
who talks about
how male* attention
is overrated
(and it’s also me
not getting over it

if you find
an ally you trust
getting hold of him
might be worth
some effort

to the men* in my life:
having a place in my life
demands from you
to be an ally
I can trust

if you happen
to (still) have that place
it doesn‘t release you from that
but it means
you‘re doing something right
and you‘d better make sure
to know what it is
you‘re doing right